Anima and animus function as autonomous contrasexual archetypes that guide ego into the depths of Psyche, unlocking creativity, feeling, empathy, and spiritual insight when integrated, yet triggering seduction, aggression, or control when projected or repressed. These figures emerge in dreams and active imagination as evolving personae—primal sprites, erotic goddesses or heroes, mature partners, ultimately spiritual guides—yet they need not appear as literal men or women, but as any radically other image. Their role lies in carrying undeveloped qualities across the threshold of consciousness, demanding precise, phenomenological attention to their symbolic form and affect. Through that attention, therapy enacts an alchemical conjunction of opposites—culminating in an inner Androgyne that restores psychic balance and advances individuation.
Negative Mother Complex: When Our Painful Childhood Owns Us
Sep 5, 2019
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Episode 70 – Dating
Aug 1, 2019
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Episode 60 – Psychological Dismemberment: Why We Can’t Stay Connected
May 23, 2019
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Episode 53 – Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Apr 4, 2019
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Episode 48 – Family Estrangement
Feb 28, 2019
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Episode 43 – Heartbreak
Jan 24, 2019
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Episode 38 – Holiday Madness
Dec 20, 2018
As the holiday season approaches, we examine the tidal...
Episode 36 – ADULTING: Leaving the Parental Path
Dec 6, 2018
What does it mean to separate from one’s parents and...
Episode 29 – Envy and Jealousy: Hobgoblins in Relationships
Oct 18, 2018
Envy is a painful symptom of disconnection from the Self. We relate envy and jealousy to early developmental dynamics, with envy related to the dyad of mother-and-baby and jealousy arriving a later, when the child realizes that sometimes he is left out of his parent’s relationship with one another.
Episode 26 – Betrayal
Sep 27, 2018
The experience of betrayal is painful, confusing, and damaging to one’s basic sense of self and reality.
Episode 21 – Living with a Crazy Parent
Aug 23, 2018
Living with a parent who is seriously impaired can be traumatic and have lasting consequences.










