FALLING IN LOVE: Bewitched, Bothered & Bewildered

Nov 25, 2021

Photo Credits: Christian Buehne, Freestock, Tallie Robinson via Unsplash

Jung says, “Love is a power of destiny, whose force reaches from heaven to hell.” Falling in love is an initiation into the divine—light, and dark—as personal and archetypal forces combine and combust. In thrall to the magical other through whom we experience newfound parts of ourselves, we fall into a reality that transcends and possesses us.

Ardor takes us by surprise and opens us fiercely and intimately to our inner world, exposing us to ourselves. Passion must pass, whether it leads to commitment and partnership or casts us into disillusion and heartbreak. We need to know and grow a capacity for loving that makes us more whole and more able to love the other in another. We shall become kinder and wiser…and bow to the excitement and aliveness of falling in love. 

Here’s the dream we analyzed:

“I am looking at myself in a mirror in my waking-life bathroom. I lean close and notice that my two upper front teeth appear to be loose and crooked. I touch one, and it skews out of alignment. I panic! I try to realign the tooth, and it falls out with a gush of blood. I touch my other tooth, and it too falls out. I hold the teeth in shaking hands as I try to fit them back in place. They won’t stay in. I am horrified and unable to do anything. The teeth seem to grow larger in my hands, looking more like an animal tooth–like a sealion canine tooth I have in my waking life. I wake suddenly with the intense urge to check my teeth to make sure they are still there and okay.”


Aldo Carotenuto. Eros & Pathos: Shades of Love & Sufferinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/0919123392/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_PEWYNA6PB0E8W9BB1KXP

Jan Bauer. Impossible Love: Why the Heart Must Go Wrong. https://www.amazon.com/dp/1626549737/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_Y5THBGJ83K0VX5EF1Z3E

James Hollis. The Eden Project: In Search of the Magical Other. https://www.amazon.com/dp/0919123805/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_06AWPRX8XXFMZG097EXR

John Haule. Divine Madness: Archetypes of Romantic Love.  https://www.amazon.com/dp/0877734836/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_7645741FXE5PM5J721AJ


Learn to Analyze your own Dreams:  https://thisjungianlife.com/enroll/


  1. Felicity

    Wow. You guys just knocked this one out of the ballpark. Thank you.

  2. Heather Akers

    Where could I locate the transcript for this episode? I couldn’t take enough notes during this episode and I really loved this episode!

    • Joseph Lee

      Hi Heather,
      We no longer create transcripts. The editing work proved to be more than we could manage when added to our other duties.


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